update lance dependencies

[hpvd]

update lance dependencies to v4.0.0 (currently they seem to be pinned to 1.0.1) and see if we can leverage some of the efficiency and speed gains coming with format v2.2 (usage has to be configured) also in the graph world, or if e.g. introduced compressions have a negative impact on graph workloads
Results should be easily measurable with https://github.com/prrao87/graph-benchmark-ldbc

[hpvd]

maybe it's worth waiting a few more days, for v5.0.0 being finalized...
https://github.com/lance-format/lance/releases/tag/v5.0.0-rc.1

[hpvd]

v6 is already underway..
lance-format/lance#6652

[hpvd]

v6 was finally released: https://github.com/lance-format/lance/releases/tag/v6.0.0