Prepare for 58.3.0 release (#9893)

# Which issue does this PR close?

- Part of #9859

# Rationale for this change

Even though we just did a release from 58, I want to get a release out
that has these changes:
- #9872
- #9813

# What changes are included in this PR?

1. Update version to 58.3.0
2. Update CHANGELOG. See Rendered preview here:
https://github.com/alamb/arrow-rs/blob/alamb/prepare_58.3.0/CHANGELOG.md

# Are these changes tested?

By CI
# Are there any user-facing changes?

yes

Author: alamb